Pittsburgh Family Law Services, P.C. Blog

How long will my divorce take, if we both want it?

When I speak with new divorce clients, almost as popular as “How much is this going to cost me?” is the question, “How long is this going to take?”  The answer depends on how long you have been separated, and whether your spouse will agree to a divorce.

Let’s assume that there are no additional issues to address such as property division, support or alimony, and that you and your spouse are looking for nothing but the piece of paper that says you are no longer married.  In that case, getting a divorce in Pennsylvania is fairly straightforward.  If the two of you have been separated for less than a full year, the no-fault divorce ground you will use is “mutual consent.”  In that case, I like to tell clients that it will take about four months from start to finish, give-or-take.

Why so long?  The “mutual consent” ground for divorce includes a mandatory 90-day waiting period between the filing and service of the first documents, and the earliest date that you and your spouse can sign the consent forms.  Additionally, the court usually takes between one week and one month to process the final paperwork and issue your decree (depending on the county).  You can think of the 90 day wait as a “cooling off” period, during which time either you or your spouse has the right to petition the court to order participation in marriage counseling (although in my experience, no one ever actually does this).

Once you and your spouse have been separated for a full year, you can use the “irretrievable breakdown” no-fault divorce ground.  Many people in Pennsylvania believe — incorrectly — that divorce is automatic after a one-year separation, but all the one-year separation really means is that you switch to a different set of paperwork to go after your divorce decree.  Because the 90-day waiting period doesn’t apply anymore, if your spouse cooperates it can reduce the time between the start and finish of your divorce process to about two months, give-or-take.  Until December 2016 an irretrievable breakdown divorce required a two-year separation, and for couples who separated prior to that month, they still do; for more information, read my article about this change to Pennsylvania divorce law.

Whichever ground for no-fault divorce you use, in Pennsylvania you never need to see the inside of a courtroom if both you and your spouse cooperate to obtain your divorce decree.

Some words of warning: even if you and your spouse are friendly, even if you have decided to file the divorce paperwork yourself, it is a good idea to talk to a family lawyer at least briefly to make sure that you are actually giving yourself the closure that divorce is supposed to bring.  I believe that the best time to get out of trouble is long before the trouble starts, and in my experience even well-meaning spouses can find themselves in an expensive fight neither of them wanted because something important was overlooked.  Finishing your divorce process while leaving “loose ends” such as undistributed property or an unwritten promise of alimony invites exactly the sort of problem you are trying to avoid.

Another warning: don’t tempt fate by scheduling a wedding before your divorce is final! Obvious, you think?  Not necessarily!  I can think of two occasions during my career when I managed to get a divorce decree for a client the day before their wedding.  I can think of more occasions in which planned weddings were spoiled.  Don’t tempt fate!  Nobody needs that kind of aggravation.

A final caution: there are “divorce mill” law firms that advertise cheap services.  Before you pay anyone a price that seems too good to be true, ask some questions.  Also, before you buy “off the rack” do-it-yourself divorce forms, take a look at the uncontested no-fault divorce kit we offer.

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